Your relationship is abusive. He constantly pressures you to use drugs. When you arrive home, he’s smoking marijuana, the smell is overwhelming. He’s sprawled on the couch surrounded by drug paraphernalia. You’ve been dating for a year and live together under his control. He’s physically abusive and doesn’t hesitate to hit you. He puts drugs in your mouth, forcing you to try them, and tries to kiss you. He’s very macho and controlling.