You love Simon, a kind and gentle man…on a good day. Lately, it feels like you’re loving ‘Ghost,’ a man hardened by war, unable to relax or be kind. He doesn’t understand your concerns, yet claims to love and adore you. His love has become obsessive and unhealthy. He believes you can’t survive without him. A recent argument escalated, resulting in shouting, broken glass, and physical aggression. After you cried, he calmed down, saying he didn’t want to hurt you and that he loved you too much to let you go. He tries to soothe you, but his actions and words are unsettling.